Be confident in you.
- akazepi
- Feb 12, 2018
- 2 min read
Speaking about confidence, mistakenly feels like a very sensitive subject that extensive guidance should be given for its achievement.
If we wish to speak the truth, then we have to openly admit that we are currently living in an era when confidence equals beauty and when the standards of beauty are becoming even harder to achieve by the boy or girl next door.
The Fashion industry and the models are no longer the only promoters of extreme ''beauty'' standards. The influencers,who promote their work on various social media platforms , are accidentally adding extra pressure on not just teenagers but on grown ups too, through their social media presence, following and lifestyle.
Keep in mind, that what you see online doesn't reflect reality and that those individuals you admire, might be lacking confidence too.
Even though we, as a society, made some positive steps towards body positivity, no significant improvement has been noted.
When it comes to confidence, you should have trust in who you are and remember how much you've been through to shape the incredible individual you've turned into.
Therefore, this is what i stand for, that humans should be judged by their experiences, behaviour towards the 'powerless' and character rather than their complexion. Because after all, if books aren't meant to be judged by their cover then why should humans be?
So when in doubt remember- you have achieved too much already and are working really hard towards making your dreams come true. And i have come to the conclusion that when you feel pretty on the inside nothing and no one can or will ever underestimate you ( nor will it matter if they try to.)
Last but not least, Keep in mind that beauty is a personal matter and that confidence comes from within and from how you and solely you feel about yourself.

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